Home » Post Item » Of Forgiveness & Starting Anew
Of Forgiveness & Starting Anew
April 2, 2009One thing I’ve learned tonight was that God was so forgiving. Tonight I’ve done something stupid that I certainly thought that made God upset.
Nevertheless, I repented from it and started anew. I’ve moved on and forgot what made me forsaken and made me broken for quite a while. I never thought that god was so forgiving until now. Truly, Love is God and God is love vice versa. He first showed that by dying on the cross 2000 years ago and now he showed me how he loved me through forgiveness.
It’s really surprising that when all God is so loving and forgiving, we are the exact opposite. Though we were made through his own likeness(The Bible quoted it so), its odd that we are easily anger and hard to forgive. We are so full of vengeance and hatred we don’t even understand and unconsciously consumes us and robs us of our joy and also of those people we aren’t ready to forgive.
How great is god who shows compassion to us. I know its hard to forgive but trying and making decision to do so is a good start. it’s hard at first but i tell you, eventually it will pass. I’ve tried it and as i made my decision to forgive that someone it felt like the wounds of that betrayal and of that sin or anything eventually healed up.It both benefited me and that someone. Though we in the past hurt one another, it made us realize that both of us need to understand each other more. It also taught us to be sensitive, compassionate not only to those who’ve hurt us but to the other people as well. Forgiving taught us of what we were missing of the times in the past when we weren’t talking. forgiving taught us to be more human.
I think there are four ways of true forgivenss. I applied it on myself too. Just check it out, I bet it can help you too.
Step One: Make the decision to forgive.Guys it all start with a choice to change. A decision to change and to do something about the situation is the right path to healing.
Step Two: Forgive yourself. Forgiving yourself is like giving yourself a fresh cold shower. It refreshes you from all the hurts and gulit you’ve been keeping to yourself for quite a time.
Step Three: Forgive those someone or somebody to hurt you. When forgiving ourselves is like giving a fresh shower to oneself, forgiving others is like gving and helping others to freshen up.Yuor helping them from the pressures you’ve on ce pass to them. Its like detoxicating them by that its like your detoxicating too from all the suppressed feelings you had before.
Step four: Start anew and build the gap when both parties are cool with each other. its definitely time to rebuild that gap. Start a new life. Its better to rebuild that friendship that once lost. there’s so much time to catch up from the time you two both lagged behind.
So there you are, my own four-way of instruction. Its very cool when no one is rob from their joy. So practice forgiveness. It will definitely do good things for you, believe me.
All comments are moderated. Your comments will not appear here unless approved by the blog owner. Thank you.



